Monday, June 28, 2010

Autumn on My Mind



In between reality and dreams, I am consistently thinking of one season. Fall. It has been said that most magazine editors are in autumn mode during the summertime. I'm right there with them. I've been craving leaves to crunch in, gray skies, the cool wind to whip at my hair, carved pumpkins outside, and hot cups of tea.

The fashion in particular is my primary thought right now. Cardigans, scarves, coats, boots. I haven't worn boots since high school, but this year I'll invest in a pair. Along with the following musts:



Her entire outfit. Most notably the canvas satchel and thick-heeled Oxfords.



A thick cardigan, preferably in the color Heather Gray (always happy to be referred to as a color), or Oatmeal.



Patent Oxfords. I had to resist the urge to keep from screaming with glee at this photo. Is it not perfection?



Hmm, a boyfriend cardigan would do quite nicely too.



Some more opaque stockings.

Let them have the pools and dripping glasses of lemonade. I will eat my oatmeal and wistfully pine for the impending months of September/October/November.

Love to you all,
Heather

Friday, June 25, 2010

URL Change



I've recently changed my url address to: loveliesteyes.blogspot.com

Apologies for anyone who was confused. The change was one brought on by a very rude email I received from a prospective employer who did not believe that I ought to be advertising to companies I'd like to work with to read a blog with a URL address entitled "vodka asylum."

Initially very put off, I do understand his reasoning. And it is time for a new change. So I chose to use the same name as my Tumblr account so it all syncs up.

However, dear sir, the next time you decide to give me helpful "feeback" please use a spell check. You'd like to represent your company with proper spelling, eh?

Just a thought :)

Today all I have to give you is a picture of Miss Hepburn. Meatier posts on the way.

Love to you all,
Heather

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Oh, The Places You'll Go

Well hot damn, I won another award! This one is from Miss JoJo at Newlywed Adventures, which is just a terrifically written and very funny blog about married life.



You're Going Places, Baby. The rules of this award are to write down where you see yourself being in ten years and to then pass this award on to ten people.

Off we go!

In ten years, I will be 32. I'm good with that. Society teaches us to fear aging, but with age comes wisdom and experience. Why would anyone want to stay in their awkward phase forever?



I'd really love to open up a bookstore of my own. When I was a little girl, I used to go to this bookstore downtown that closed at midnight every night, had two floors of books with each section designed to look like its genre (history, with globes and darker pine coloring, children's in a pale castle) and had a bar with a restaurant. I repeat, a bar with martinis. There was no overpriced coffee, no WiFi, no texting, no Facebook. The neighborhood was filled with boutiques, art galleries, houses, and cafes. This was, and still remains, the most progressive bookstore I ever spent my time in.

The times changed and my beloved bookstore went under around 2005. I went back and filmed the place for my senior year film project explaining "Who Am I?" and to my understanding, it is still empty. The art gallery across the street folded and the neighborhood has since seen the rise of Starbucks fill it.

So I'd rebuild my dream bookstore. Concentrating on books primarily and no. coffee. shops. inside. In fact, I believe all cell phones should be held at the door. Whenever you're reading, time shouldn't matter. Texts shouldn't interrupt the process. The words should simply be your world.



The first room of any place I live that is filled up first and truly homey? The closet. I love clothes, shoes, handbags, and I'd sooner live without furniture than be deprived a blouse I wanted.



I am addicted to flying and being in airports. I love going somewhere, even if that destination is unclear. People watching is the best in airports, try it sometime! By the time I'm 32, I've probably have acquired frequent flyer miles like nobody's business.



I will have replicated this entire outfit!



I want to bring back the liquid lunch! Seriously now, NOBODY is fooling me with those plastic bottles of water during a meeting. Deep down inside, while Mr. BigShot BossMan is yammering about the Dow Jones falling over the last fiscal year, you're thinking to yourself, "It's sure is hot outside. I could go for a Mint Julep. Or a Gin and Tonic. Or pretty much anything that's booze on the rocks."

I am fully aware that right now, while I'm looking for jobs and including little "check out my blog!" blurbs in my cover letters, that writing about the need to bring alcohol to a business meeting will not be looked at kindly. This isn't about getting drunk though. This is just one drink to loosen everyone up at the table and get the ball rolling without the initial stiff moment at the beginning where nobody wants to raise their hand or worse, you have to play some sort of stupid name game where you throw a little beanbag from person to person.

Right? Chin Chin!



I'm the kind of girl who when people sit around talking about how many calories are in this or that or trans fat, etc, I feel compelled to eat a big sandwich right in front of them. At 32, my sweet tooth will still be alive and well.



Never forget being a kid at heart. This includes just coloring for the sake of coloring. It's cheap fun that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy.



By the time I'm 32, Lindsay Lohan and Miley Cyrus will be grown up too. Wrap your mind around their future, trampy, "I'm not old!" outfits for a minute. For that matter, envision what Heidi Montag will look like or the sheer craziness that Amy Winehouse will probably still be alive.

Never fear, I plan on dressing vintage and tastefully retro for the rest of my life. For this reason alone, I sort-of feel like aiming to be famous because then girls would have a good role model to look up to for dressing their age.

Emma Watson and Zooey Deschanel will be grown up too. All is not lost!



Being a kid at heart, by the time I'm 32, maybe science will have made it possible to truly play the game of Jumanji like it's played in the movie.



I also want one of these dollhouses. I'm not kidding. It's been a lifelong dream of mine. The stairs alone have won my heart.



If you visit my Tumblr or know me in real life, then you'll know I love this man. Ralph Fiennes is definitely my future husband.



Here's where I'd like to live at 32. Secluded enough to hide away, but not cut off from the rest of the world entirely.

This award also calls for me tag 10 people who are going places. Believe me, these 10 ladies are going places most definitely!

City of Dionne
Dancing Branflakes
Dibbly Fresh
Drollgirl
Georgina Dollface
I know, right?
just a small town girl
Literary Crap
Melanie's Randomness
the lovely dove


Love to you all,
Heather

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Injustice



It takes a lot to get me angry, but I think this article I found on Yahoo!'s home web page did it directly to me today. I cannot even tell you how incredibly disgusted I am nor the measure of how livid the blood boiling in my body is. (After several slow weeks, I must say it does feel good to get these feelings pulsating again.)

The headline?

Out-of-work job applicants told unemployed need not apply

Employed or not, I had to read the article (here for your viewing, ironically from the CNNMoney web site: http://money.cnn.com/2010/06/16/news/economy/unemployed_need_not_apply/index.htm)

Because this article made me so upset, I've decided to copy and paste the entire thing in here, with little comments from me in bold inside of parentheses next to truly ludicrous statements:

The last thing someone who is unemployed needs to be told is that they shouldn't even apply for the limited number of job openings that are available. But some companies and recruiters are doing just that.

Employment experts say they believe companies are increasingly interested only in applicants who already have a job.

"I think it is more prevalent than it used to be," said Rich Thompson, vice president of learning and performance for Adecco Group North America, the world's largest staffing firm. "I don't have hard numbers, but three out of the last four conversations I've had about openings, this requirement was brought up."

Some job postings include restrictions such as "unemployed candidates will not be considered" or "must be currently employed." (You Must Be Kidding Me Moment #1. In this economy with families and recent college graduates struggling to make ends meet, you will not grant these individuals, with qualified skills and work experience, an interview or even a look at their resume unless they are employed?) Those explicit limitations have occasionally been removed from listings when an employer or recruiter is questioned by the media though. (So if the media doesn't intervene on what is obviously a wrong practice, you'll continue doing this? Or grant us the "blessing" of occasionally removing this from listings? BULLSHIT!)

That's what happened with numerous listings for grocery store managers throughout the Southeast posted by a South Carolina recruiter, Latro Consulting.

After CNNMoney called seeking comments on the listings last week, the restriction against unemployed candidates being considered came down. Latro Consulting refused to comment when contacted. (Of course they did. Because if they did comment and own up to what they did, then the person responsible for posting this "requirement" would be fired and suddenly unemployed. Which would make them unable to get hired! Being a grown-up and admitting to your own mistakes must be lost on the people at Latro.)

Sony Ericsson, a global phone manufacturer that was hiring for a new Georgia facility, also removed a similar restriction after local reporters wrote about it. (Well, now I know where not to buy my products from. And where to discourage my friends and family to not invest with.) According to reports, a Sony Ericsson spokesperson said that a mistake had been made. (Could you specify this? Or in spelling bee terms, use it in a correct sentence? How very vague of them.)

But even if companies don't spell out in a job listing that they won't consider someone who currently doesn't have a job, experts said that unemployed applicants are typically ruled out right off the bat. (Does this even begin to sound logical to anyone? I understand ruling individuals out for not having the proper skills or experience, but they don't even look at the resumes! Blood boiling rate: 6.9 on a 10 scale.)

"Most executive recruiters won't look at a candidate unless they have a job, even if they don't like to admit to it," said Lisa Chenofsky Singer, a human resources consultant from Millburn, NJ, specializing in media and publishing jobs.

She said when she proposes candidates for openings, the first question she is often asked by a recruiter is if they currently have a job. If the answer is no, she's typically told the unemployed candidate won't be interviewed. (Dear Recruiters, you remember that scene in Knocked Up when Leslie Mann is screaming at the doorman for not letting her into the club and telling her to go to the back of the line? Yep. That's you Recruiters. You are not God. Remember that.)

"They think you must have been laid off for performance issues," she said, adding that this is a "myth" in a time of high unemployment. (Surely they are aware of the phrase about assuming things and what it does to both you and me?)

It is not against the law for companies to exclude the unemployed when trying to fill positions, but Judy Conti, a lobbyist for the National Employment Law Project, said the practice is a bad one. (No offense Ms. Conti, but no shit Sherlock. I fully believe this should be against the law. You have to sign the job application agreeing that everything you wrote is truthful and to your best knowledge. If you take the time to fill out this form with truth on your side, it is extremely unfair to be excluded simply for stating said truths.)

"Making that kind of automatic cut is senseless; you could be missing out on the best person of all," she said. "There are millions of people who are unemployed through no fault of their own. If an employer feels that the best qualified are the ones already working, they have no appreciation of the crisis we're in right now." (Much better, though I beg to differ on the "you could be missing out." You would miss out! Every person, big or small, brings something necessary to the company, regardless of what their position may be.)

Conti added that firms that hire unemployed job seekers could also benefit from a recently-passed tax break that essentially exempts them from paying the 6.2% of the new hire's wages in Social Security taxes for the rest of this year. (Oh honey, you didn't say that loud enough for the fat cats to hear. ALL CAPS PLEASE! HEY CORPORATIONS, YOU LIKE MONEY? WANT MORE? HIRE THE UNEMPLOYED AND YOU'LL GET TAX EXEMPTION!!!)

Thompson said he also thinks ruling out the unemployed is a bad idea. But he said that part of the problem is that recruiters and human resource departments are being overwhelmed with applications for any job opening that is posted. So they're looking for any short-cuts to get the list of applicants to consider down to a more manageable size. (Basically, HR wants to make their jobs easier so they can get off half an hour earlier to catch the Happy Hour specials at T.G.I. Fridays and talk about how much they can't stand their jobs/that the new girl Anna's skirt was too tight and everyone was looking at her in the office especially the men and whyyyy won't they look at me even though I'm married and refuse to wear any makeup. Meanwhile, there's a lot of hopeful thumbs crossed for a position that won't even warrant an email back, acknowledging that they received their application. Little hopeful wishers, I have a secret to tell you that you won't want to hear: This isn't the job for you. Sure, it's a paycheck, but is that worth it in the end? You're destined for better things and they are coming. Patience, I promise.)

"It's a tough process to determine which unemployed applicants were laid off even though they brought value to their company and which ones had performance issues," he said. "I understand the notion. But there's the top x percent of unemployed candidates who are very viable and very valuable. You just have to do the work to find them."

....

There's a lot of issues I get upset about and fight for. Arts in schools. Scholarship funding increases. Giving children homes and food. The right for everyone to be treated with dignity and to have basic needs fulfilled.

This just took it to the next level. This is injustice in the work force. During this period of time, when we are all looking for change and for help in finding our footing after losing it, this happens.

I'd really like to know how you feel about this. You guys are incredibly bright, astute individuals and to hear your opinion means more to me than my own (it must be my journalistic nature; I've long considered the words of others to still be 10 times more intriguing than simply mine).

I'm climbing off my soapbox now.

Love to you all,
Heather

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

My Novel Wishlist

WANTED: A life-changing book. One I will read for years and continue to be touched by. One where I will feel the emotions of the protagonist and lose myself within the story and setting. Where the dialogue I read I will stand up and shout, "That's me! I believe this! I know this!" Where I will laugh so hard, I roll on the ground and my face hurts.

Being unemployed is a blessing in disguise. I've been spending weeks at Barnes and Noble, quietly reading the shelves. Since today marks my one month anniversary of being both unemployed and a college graduate, I'd thought I'd reward myself with some reading that isn't for school.

Here are the books I want (I've already read several pages of most and love them!):













Any other suggestions, send them this way!

Love to you all,
Heather

Friday, June 11, 2010

Tasty Delights

Hello everyone!

Quick life update. Thank you so much for all of your good wishes for my grandpa. He's doing better right now, as far as I last heard which is such a relief.

I am now officially moved into my new bedroom and will be spending the weekend getting it nicely done up with some furniture. I'm going to have to buy a camera to photograph the end result. If it matches up to my mental image, I plan on having simple, minimalistic pieces with a refined, chic look. I know in college I used to have a penchant for lots of posters and pop culture everywhere you turned, but this time I feel the need to be reserved. Sort of.

My job interview is tomorrow morning. Fingers crossed!

Remodeling on this blog like whoa too. I like the new look much more.

Moving along, let's talk yummy eats.

As a child, I was notoriously a picky eater. I had issues with lots of foods and tended to stay within a little bracket called Chicken Fingers-French Fries-Cookies. I used to eat spaghetti without sauce (in my defense, so did my best friend). Brocoli, avocado, pickles. I detested them all. Corn was the only acceptable vegetable to me and this was generally on the cob variety.

Thankfully, my taste buds have changed since then. Unfortunately, I am still a bracket eater, but this time, the bracket is healthier and includes vegetables!

Warning. Photos may inspire extreme cases of hunger, stomach growls, runs to the kitchen. There might be drool.



The trifecta. Mac 'n cheese, tomato soup, and grilled cheese.

Of the three, tomato soup is a recent new love of mine. When I was in SF, I went to Boudins fairly often. The one in Pier 39 is ridiculously busy with a much fuller menu than prior locations I had been to that offered tomato soup each day. One extremely chilly afternoon, I walked down there and tried a bowl.

Easily one of the most delicious choices I've made in my life.

Grilled cheese is also another favorite of mine. Sometimes I put tomatoes in it for an extra kick. It's wonderful that way. I enjoy my grilled cheeses almost burnt too, the cheese melts fairly well inside the crisp bread.

Mac 'n Cheese is a classic. Grate some extra cheddar on top and bake the noodles to enhance the experience.



I love French fries. They've been with me throughout my whole life. However, as of recently, I've figured out a way to enhance them even further. Ready for the secret? Ranch Dressing to dip in. Specifically Ken's Steakhouse Ranch. I'm finding it increasingly difficult to even consider eating my fries sans the ranch. (Ranch was also a condiment I would never, ever touch as a child. It's weird how everything I detested then I love now.)



"Hey Heather, whatcha making for dinner?"

The answer, most recently, is a quesadilla. I've already been a big fan of Mexican food, but the quesadilla took time for me to find out about and try. Generally, I love them with lots of cheese inside, pico de gallo, sour cream, and extra salsa. The spicier, the better!




The omelet is also a more recent addition to my palate. Generally I don't like to eat breakfast. I get tired after eating it and stick to lunch and dinner as my main meals of the day. An egg and cheese omelet is what I'll usually pick to eat at a still-down eatery as my breakfast of choice. Plus, they tend to come with at least two sides and a muffin. It's a good deal all around.



Pasta with broccoli and some sprinkled Parmesan cheese on top? Yes please.



As a former sandwich artist, I still count sandwiches to be among my favorite foods. You get crafty when all of the ingredients are at your disposal and wind up creating strange and wonderful 'wiches.
I'm by the book with my favorite sandwich, the Sierra Turkey from Panera Bread. Cheese focaccia bread with field greens, turkey, onions, and chipotle dressing. It's the greatest thing you will order there (sans the Broccoli Cheddar soup of course).



Chips 'n dip. I used to absolutely despise guacamole as a kid. I'm beginning to wonder what was wrong with me back then. Oh well. At least now, we're making up for lost time.

My favorite fast food eatery? Look no further than below...



In 'n Out Burger! One of my best friends and I used to go here once a week to talk nonstop about life and enjoy the marvelous cheeseburgers they have. I say "used to" because it is summer, but when the school year (hers, not mine) starts up again, we'll be resuming the habit.

Okay everyone, what are the foods you love? I judge no choice, no matter how unhealthy or obscure.

Love to you all,
Heather

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Winning and Sharing the Wealth

I've recently won some awards which has been super lovely and though I enjoy winning, I'd much rather share the wealth with other great blogosphere writers!



Award #1 is from Melanie at Melanie's Randomness. One of my favorite bloggers, Melanie's take on life and all of the little and big things that come unexpectedly along is honest and very funny.

Here are the rules:
1. Thank the person that gave this to you :) Go on, give them a virtual hug!

2. Copy the award and put it on your blog.

3. List 3 things you love about yourself ♥

4. Post a picture you love (e.g a person you adore etc.)

5. Tag 5 people you wish to pass this award on to :)

My 3 Things:

1) My ability to see the best in people, even if nobody else does.
2) Telling jokes to everyone and making others laugh.
3) My sense of style. Its come a long way, baby.



I don't know who this girl is or who took the photo, but I've loved it for years.

The Fab 5:

a natalie moment
Bicoastally
just a small town girl
Propoquery--It's a statement and a question
Shimmer Like Gold




Award #2 comes from JoJo at Newlywed Adventures. I received a recommendation to visit her site and loved it immediately. If I ever get married, I'd like to be like her!

The rules of this award are to list ten facts that aren’t common knowledge and to pass it on to six other deserving bloggers.

1) Though it's a fun myth, Marie Antoinette never actually uttered the phrase "Let them eat cake."

2) Even though we all think it's a vegetable, the tomato is really a fruit.

3) Zooey Deschanel used to date Jason Schwartzman.

4) You might have the same dream as someone else, but it isn't actually the same.

5) California is 42 billion in debt.

6) Tom Cruise wanted the role of Iron Man. (Just imagine no RDJ in that role. Sickening, isn't it?)

7) Deutsch Inc. is an advertising agency who represents Snapple, DirecTV, Johnson & Johnson, VW, and Dr. Pepper among many. I applied for a job there.

8) You should try to never order a drink advertised as a "Cosmopolitan with Champagne" Vodka and champagne are not a winning combination.

9)If you get a Disneyland annual pass, you'll save yourself lots of money and be infinitely happy in one of the most magical places on earth.

10) Dita von Teese has a 17 inch waist, when corseted.

The Swell 6:

Happy By Choice
nostomanic
Shattered Prose
the lovely dove
we are the glue, and this is how glue works
Who Wants Taters???




Award #3 is from the lovely Jo at Thank U And Good Nite. This is appropriate considering she always puts a smile on my face with her great posts!

This is supposed to be passed on to five followers who bring a ray of sunshine to your blog. :)

The Fine 5:

English Rose
erinologies
Fourth Grade Nothing
Georgina Dollface
Res ipsa loquitur


Love to you all,
Heather

Sunday, June 6, 2010

My Heroine







There are no guarantees of success in this world, not even for those whose lives are as charmed as yours. So have fun now! Do it! Put down the books! Have sex! Drink too much beer! Do something stupid while you’re still young enough to chalk it up to blissful ignorance!

-Jessica Darling, Charmed Thirds

If you haven't read this series already, I highly recommend it. No, actually I require you read it. In the era when most teenage protagonists in novels are either chasing designer shoes or glittery guys, Megan McCafferty has created one of the most witty, thoughtful and constantly questioning heroines in teenage student Jessica Darling. As far as I'm concerned, Miss Darling is my literary soul sister.

You'll love her, I promise.

Love to you all,
Heather

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Staples of My Wardrobe



Quoting a line from the movie Amelie, "Times are hard for dreamers."

I'm a dreamer so I guess the sentiment above is appropriate for me. Things have been difficult lately. Job hunting has been worsening much to the chagrin of the split part of me who is keenly aware that reality is rearing its ugly head. Soon. The other half of me, well, she's lost it. She's nearly to the point where all she wants to do is run from state to state, living some sort of drifter lifestyle. So for every job I do not get, this portion of myself sees it as a sign that it wasn't destined to be. Which is well and all but I do need some sort of income to pay my rent.

Furthermore, if I get one more prospective employer who tells me that they have no positions available at the current time, but "we love your blog" I will scream until the entire country hears me. That is not beneficial to me. My blog is my writing lifeline, but it doesn't earn a revenue. I'd sooner chew on glass than bombard my personal writing space with advertisements and coupons. So I'd rather hear "We love your blog and would like to have your voice work with us" instead of "We love your blog and want to drain you of your ideas for a position that doesn't pay you."

The family life has been bad too. My grandpa is in the hospital right now and suffered from cardiac arrest yesterday. It's looking very unlikely that he'll make it and my Mom is extremely upset because he's her father. I'm one of the very few people I know who has all 4 of her grandparents still alive and I'm upset because that side of the family is the kind side. He was always very kind to me and I can't do anything to help because I'm too far away.

Also, nobody in my family wants to buy me a bed. This is a minor detail on the list, but significant because my parents do not believe that I'll stay in one place for very long. They told me they think I'll be constantly moving in the next 5 years. Which alarms me because I don't doubt it. There's a part of me that doesn't want to live out of a suitcase and wants a stable address and home. There's a separate part of me that just wants to run from place to place.

Mostly, I just want to run to a garden or park and stay hidden in a treehouse or fort. On the road to maturity, here I go.

When I'm upset, what generally makes me feel better is to get dressed up. Look pretty, smile at myself, and reassure that mirror image of me that hey you, things are going to be good today!

This leads me to discuss the staples of my wardrobe. My signature pieces I could never do without.

The White Blouse



It's a classic that is utterly versatile, all places and events considered. I tend to wear the ones that button up and incorporate a bow or ruffle. I enjoy blouses in jewel tones too, but none of them compare to the plain white blouse. It's a treasure.



However, sometimes when I feel more romantic on a gray afternoon, I look for something less white, more decayed in coloring, and with some intricate embroidering.

The Pencil Skirt



It cinches in at the waist, emphasizing all of your greatest gifts on both the top and bottom while making you look incredibly trim and small. Bless this skirt, it never looks dowdy and transcends the ages.

Opaque Stockings



It could be 110 degrees outside and I'd still wear them. No matter what. This is one staple I wear year round.

Dress Pants



I never wear jeans and seldom wear pants (this girl lives in her skirts). However, dress pants are always winners in my book. Perfectly crisp and tailored to fit just right.

High-Waisted Shorts



I wear a pair (slightly shorter than these) with a belt.

The Blazer



It is both masculine and feminine and utterly perfect always. Note the heels, heels are fairly important to me as well.



Now she looks alarmingly like me!

The Trench Coat



I have one in red, but really with all trenches, you can be chic...



...and sexy.

Locket



They're small and simple. I like heart-shaped jewelry.

Red Lipstick



Honestly, where would I be without it?

Finally, I have no idea who this woman is, but she's definitely a style inspiration of mine...



Love to you all,
Heather